fix(tv): only defer option-modal selection when it navigates

The close-first + runAfterInteractions change (needed so the in-player audio
switch's replacePlayer isn't swallowed by the modal route) also runs for every
other tv-option-modal caller — detail-page audio, library filters, settings —
whose onSelect only updates state. Deferring those until after dismissal
re-renders the page after focus returns and yanks TV focus, leaving navigation
stuck. Gate the deferral behind deferApplyUntilDismissed (set only by the
in-player audio caller); everyone else applies before closing, as before.

hooks/useTVOptionModal.ts

@@ -12,6 +12,7 @@ interface ShowOptionsParams<T> {
   onSelect: (value: T) => void;
   cardWidth?: number;
   cardHeight?: number;
+  deferApplyUntilDismissed?: boolean;
 }
 
 export const useTVOptionModal = () => {
@@ -26,6 +27,7 @@ export const useTVOptionModal = () => {
         onSelect: params.onSelect,
         cardWidth: params.cardWidth,
         cardHeight: params.cardHeight,
+        deferApplyUntilDismissed: params.deferApplyUntilDismissed,
       });
       router.push("/(auth)/tv-option-modal");
     },